Hi everyone! Jonathan here back on the line! So many things going on, from work to finding internships, to school, and more fun animation projects. But today, I wanted to update all of you on something I have always been thinking about ever since I decided to pursue animation in 5th grade: what my future family will look like and when I will meet "the one".
Valentine's Day is the time to appreciate those we truly love and care about. For Valentine's Day, I created this drawing of Raffy and Rosey kissing each other. The 2 of them complement each other very well. While Raffy loves creating animation and cartoons, Rosey is more into nature and flower paintings. While both of them are pretty shy, they met after discovering their common nature with each other. Like Raffy and Rosey, aside from creating my own characters and running my own successful animation studio, I also dream of marrying "the one" and starting a family someday. Many of you may be asking what are the ideal qualities I am looking for in "the ideal princess" I hope to marry someday?
First and foremost, my ideal princess loves Disney characters, cartoons, and animation. She's really into these interests that she forms and maintains a strong bond with me over them. She also dreams of becoming a successful animator someday, not just to make money, but more because she is passionate about animation and loves the joy and laughter it brings to many. She will always be there to support me and my dreams.
Second, my ideal princess will always see the world through the eyes of a child. She likes to dream and see all of the possibilities the world offers. She loves to do pretend play, whether she and I are playing with our stuffed animals, building a scene with our action figures, or even dressing up/cosplaying as our favorite characters. Even when our lives may be overwhelmed with items left and right, she still remembers to have fun and always have faith.
Third, my ideal princess loves animals. She loves animals so much that she's always happy to see them, especially rabbits. On a trip to the zoo or the dog park, I can see both of us petting the animals and sketching them together, helping each other move forward in our animal exploration for our features. She is okay with me adopting a chihuahua into our family.
Fourth, my ideal princess loves Disney and animation so much that she wants to live around the Hollywood-Burbank area for the rest of her life. She loves being near the animation studios and likes the nature and vastness of Griffith Park. I see us going on walks together in Griffith Park and attending many industry events at animation studios and conventions like ToonCon, LightBox, and CTNX. She may be from anywhere around the world, but dreams of living in L.A. for the rest of her life.
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My ideal area I would like to live in |
Last, but certainly not least, my ideal princess is someone who loves and accepts me for who I am. While she may be a Congregationalist like me, part of a different Christian denomination, or even a completely different faith than me, she respects my commitment to my faith and how my faith made me into who I am today. We appreciate each other not just for our strengths, but also for our weaknesses. We are there for each other not just on the bright good days, but also on the most depressing of days.
That said, finding "the one" is not easy, especially as someone who grew up different than most. Often, it's hard, if not impossible, to find someone who fits all of these qualities perfectly, so I created a list of the 4 most important conditions for me:
1. Someone who truly loves and accepts me for who I am
2. Someone whom I can bond with over Disney and animation (classic Disney and traditional animation is a big plus)
3. Someone who would love to spend the rest of her life with me near the animation studios around L.A./Burbank
4. Someone who does not smoke, doesn't do drugs, and doesn't excessively drink alcohol
That being said, I've also thought about where I may first meet this wonderful soul. Is it someone I already know? Is it someone I still have yet to meet? When and where will our souls connect? Here are the 5 places I feel are the most likely for us to first meet:
1. Disneyland Resort/Disneyland/Disney California Adventure or Walt Disney World - We both love Disney cartoons and the Disney Parks are such wonderful places to see our favorite characters in real life.
2. Universal Studios Hollywood - We both love animation and going to theme parks. Universal Studios is also the closest theme park to Burbank and the animation studios
3. CSULB - Many of the animators I have met have been from my school, CSULB.
4. Animation Studios (Disney Studios, Warner Bros., etc.) / Animation Conventions (ToonCon, LightBox, CTNX, etc.) - Wonderful places to meet more animators of all kinds.
5. Griffith Park - Home to many attractions that inspired Walt Disney or reminisce of his times - The Griffith Park Carousel, Walt Disney's Barn, L.A. Live Steamers Railroad, Travel Town, etc.
Many of you may be asking, does she need to be of a particular race or ethnicity? Does she need to be Christian like you? When will you get a girlfriend?
For race/ethnicity, while I did have a preference in the past, now, I am open to any race/ethnicity. Like what Derek learned in The Swan Princess, what determines the best partner is their character and who they are on the inside, not their skin color or looks. In other words, love is much more than just looks.
On faith and religion, this is more of a who they are on the inside question: While it is nice to marry someone who shares my faith, I am open to anyone of any faith or religion as long as we respect each other's faiths and don't try to pressure each other one way or another. There is more to a person than just their religion. My ideal princess likes all religions, respects my conscience and faith, and respects our decisions to share our faiths with our young ones. For my kids, the religion he/she identifies with would be completely up to each of them and their conscience to decide. Most importantly, my ideal princess is very genuine with a kind and loving heart, regardless of religion.
In terms of when it will happen, I'll leave that to the spirits and God to decide for me. One thing I do feel is very important beforehand is a close friendship. It's important to me that I'm close friends with her for at least 1 year in person before I even think about taking the next step, so we can form that bond, build trust between each other, and find out whether we're compatible with each other in the long run. This friendship is one where we are always there for each other because we truly care for each other from our hearts, not just when we need something from one another.
With all that being said, someday, my princess will come.